Setting Stretch Goals


A little over a year ago, Adam and I set a very ambitious goal of paying off our mortgage in 1 year. At the time we owed a little less than 300K so this was no small feat, however, we knew we were going to sell two of our rental properties so we figured it was doable.

It was.

We paid our mortgage off in October of 2016 using a combination of savings and proceeds from the sales of our rental properties. Woo Hoo! Big celebrations!

Then I noticed something interesting. Without the ambitious goal leading us like a carrot in front of a donkey, our spending slowly crept up. An extra meal out here, a thoughtless purchase of some new fancy thing there and before we knew it, we were spending way more than we were at the beginning of the year when we had a clear, specific measurable goal.

I guess there is something to that goal setting, hu?

Since we are no longer paying off any debt, our new stretch goal is all about accumulation. We ended 2016 with about $235,000 in investments. If we save at the rate that we intend to, we should reach $375,000 by the end of next year (this includes a lot of random extra income from various sources that we are counting on over the year and the fact that we have no mortgage to pay!).

So, because I’m completely nuts, I’ve decided our stretch goal will be $400,000 by the end of the December 2017. In order for this to happen, the market will have to continue its amazing growth, I will need to bring in more money with my business, and we will have to save even more than we currently do.

But…its is doable.

I’m not sure that we are going to make this goal, but here is to trying!

September Wrap Up

leafIts my favorite time of the month! The time when I get to check in with our investments and see how much we’ve made over the month. It is the time when I also calculate all of our expenditures to see exactly where our money went so we can make any changes if needed.

The market has definitely slowed down, but I will leave it up to those who delight in analyzing market trends to explain why. The part that I care about is how it affected us. Over the course of September, our investments grew 1.39%. That is nothing to shake your hat at (is that really a saying? I feel like I’ve used it before but as I write it, it just looks ridiculous). To put it in perspective: if we were to always have that kind of growth, we’d be making 16.68% interest for the year. Considering our retirement calculations are based on making 7% per year, that kind of growth is amazingballs (wow – I am full of the totally dated sayings today. I can just feel Tiny Eivy rolling her eyes at me).

Unfortunately, not all of our accounts realized that kind of growth. Oh, this is going to hurt to talk about but I preach celebrating mistakes so here goes.

Before I knew anything about investing or savings or the difference between a 401k and a regular taxable investment account, I knew that I wanted to reach financial independence early. So, I did what everyone else does and met with a financial advisor. Now, I wasn’t totally clueless. I did my research on this woman and she was good. Not only did she know her stuff but she was kind and fun – the kind of person I wanted to hang out with and still do! I love this woman. Which is part of the problem.

Overall, it is almost impossible to beat simple passive investing in the total stock market through Vanguard. I’m going to say this one more time because it is super important: Overall, it is almost impossible to beat simple passive investing in the total stock market through Vanguard. My expense ratio for the total stock market is .05%. That is amazing. That is essentially the fee that I pay to Vanguard so that I can invest. Any financial advisor is going to have to charge quite a bit more than that. Usually in the realm of 2% which means that my investments with an advisor need to make 1.95% more than my investments in the total stock market just so that I could make the same return. On top of that challenge, studies have found that most investors (the financial advisors who create mutual funds and invest your money for you) fail to get a return higher than simply investing in the total stock market. Ouch.

Which brings me back to this amazing investment advisor who I have been working with for the past 5 years. Partly because she is my friend and partly because I was curious if all of these statistics were true, I’ve kept my initial investments with her. I started tracking the return I was getting on my investments in the total stock market vs her investments.

Over the course of 10 months, my return has beat her return every month. September was the most striking. While my investments returned 1.3%, hers returned -0.1%. Ack!

Now, believe me, I understand that the market is based on general trends and even looking at the data on a monthly basis is such a small slice of information that it is almost meaningless. But, ouch! I think I’m going to have to get my money out and invest it myself, but it is so hard for me to do this!

So, how did we do in September? We did alright. We had several large medical expenses – including a bill for a service that happened over a year ago. Gotta love that medical system! We also booked a trip to Disneyland which sounds much more extravagant than it actually was. A couple of times a year, Adam’s work (Disney) pays for his airfare and hotel to travel to Disneyland to talk about all that tech stuff he does here with the team there. Couple that with super cheap flights ($250 for BOTH Tiny Eivy and me to fly round trip) and free passes to the park (thank you Disney benefits), and you have a recipe for a super fun super frugal vacation.

We also didn’t have to pay a mortgage this month for the first time ever! Hooray! So, overall, we managed a savings rate of 70%. Not too shabby.

I’m really looking forward to seeing how we do next month. Our biggest spending category is always groceries. For the month of October we are trying something new: cook for a month. I went grocery shopping yesterday and spent about $100 on food which I then used to prepare 12 meals that we put in our freezer. I’m hoping that with leftovers and just buying veggies to go with the meals, our food budget will be drastically reduced. Although, we will be spending a week in Disneyland so who knows how it will all turn out. I’ll keep you posted.

How did you do in September?

How are finances and fad diets related?


Lets be honest: anyone can do anything for a short enough time period.

  • sprint for five seconds
  • don’t eat sugar for one hour
  • don’t spend any money for one day

No problem. These are easy to do because it is such a short period of time. Start tacking on minutes, hours, days and it becomes more and more challenging.

When I was part of a popular weight management program, they used to tell me that to make something a habit you have to do it for 21 days. Sure, if you do something for 21 days, it becomes easier, but I question if it is actually a habit. Its definitely not a lifestyle change after 21 days which is ultimately what you need to succeed at both diets and the frugal lifestyle.

**Wow – I don’t like that phrase at all: frugal lifestyle. It sounds like living a life a deprivation. I’m going to change it to: financially independent lifestyle.  A little wordy but much better.**

Back to my original analogy. Buy nothing months are a great way to kickstart your financially independent lifestyle just like starting a new fad diet is a great way to lose a few pounds; however, neither of these options are great for making a lifestyle change.

Why do I bring this up now? Because, hard as you may find it to believe, even we Eivy’s struggle with maintaining a financially independent lifestyle. We paid off our mortgage (yea!) and then started slipping. One little meal out here, an amazon purchase there and pretty soon you have a recipe for working in an office for the rest of your life.

However, it is also important to figure out a balance that is sustainable for  your lifestyle. The hardest thing for me about being frugal is eating out. I LOVE to eat out. Its convenient, its fun, its connecting and it is oh so delicious. Am I going to do it everyday? No! But I’m not going to worry too much about it I do eat out a couple times a week. Especially, if I can find a place to do it relatively on the cheap.

**Side note: I found the most amazing burger place next to my skating rink where, we discovered last night, we could all eat for under $20 total. Pretty good.**

Some people can live quite happily never eating out, but for my lifestyle and my sanity, it really is a must. I could deny this and continue to cook every meal at home every night, but that is not sustainable and sustainable is the name of the game! To really make a LIFESTYLE change you have to figure out what is sustainable for your family.

Don’t get me wrong, compared to most people we are still quite frugal. My clothing budge is about $10 a month, and aside from Derby dues we don’t pay anything for entertainment (bonus- Derby doubles as our gym so that’s covered as well). We don’t have cable – just Netflix. We don’t buy new things for our house – just used and only if we absolutely need it. And you know what? I feel so rich. Seriously. I want for nothing. I pinch myself because I can’t believe how lucky I feel.

This is what is sustainable for us. I’m curious what is sustainable for you?



One Step Closer!

california-34We did it! I just sent in my very last mortgage payment ever! What a rush. I can’t even tell you how amazing this feels.

When we set a goal of paying off our mortgage in one year, I thought we were nuts. I looked at the enormous number of dollars we had left to pay and silently wept. I thought it was impossible. I thought I would be paying a mortgage for the rest of my life. I thought it was a pipe dream. But no more! We are free!!!!!

This really feels like a tipping point. Not only do we not have to pay a mortgage any longer, but we can put the money that we would have spent on the mortgage into our investments which will help us get to our magical FI number all the sooner.

Is this the smartest use of our money? Should we have invested that money in the market instead of our mortgage? Who knows. Only time will tell, but what I do know is that in the crazy housing market of Seattle, I don’t have to worry about a landlord raising my rent by hundreds of dollars a month. I don’t have to worry about buying a home with multiple offers. I get to simply enjoy the peace of living rent and mortgage free in a home I love.

So, I encourage everyone to set crazy high goals – to strive for what is impossible and celebrate your success! I know I will 🙂

Ack! Is it September already?

africa-3So, its September…not quite sure how that happened.

I left for Africa on August 21st in the middle of the summer and when I got back September 1st it was solidly fall – with crisp air and turning leaves. I am not one of those people who lives for fall. Don’t get me wrong. I like it – pumpkins, apple cider and cooler air. What’s not to like? But its no summer. Fall is like the consolation prize you get when you have to say good bye to summer.

Ah well – I digress (or rather, I didn’t mean to start talking about the changing seasons when what i really want to talk about is…): our financial update!

August was, without a doubt, the busiest month financially for us. We sold two of our rental houses (woo hoo!!!!) and used that money to pay off the mortgage on our current house (again, I say, woo hoo!!!). As of tomorrow, we will officially be debt free…unless you are counting our vacation rental property…which I don’t count because it is like its own self contained business. I leave that property alone – let the vacation rental managers take care of everything – and collect a check every month. Easy peasy. Eventually, we will pay off the mortgage on that account too and then the checks we collect each month will be bigger 🙂

We changed our spending habits a bit in August as well. Rather than keep ourselves on a strict “no eating out” plan, we ate out four of five times and surprisingly, our food spending actually went down! I think the reason was that when I know we are not eating out, I plan these elaborate meals every night and we end up spending quite a bit on groceries. When we kinda play it by ear, we end up eating a lot of leftovers mixed with a few meals out. It works for us.

I also signed up for one of those meal delivery in a box things again. While definitely NOT a frugal option, it keeps us in the habit of eating at home which ultimately does save us money – especially if I bulk up the recipes so we have leftovers. Plus, it removes the worst part of my day: 4pm when I am trying to wrangle my child and I suddenly realize that I have no idea what is for dinner and all we have in the house is peanut butter crackers. Come one, we’ve all been there…right?…right?….

In other news, I went to Africa. NBD. Africa! I stepped up my photography skills, learned a ton, cried a lot (don’t feel sorry for me – I cry at everything), made some amazing friends and changed my life. Like I said, NBD.

August Financial Recap:

(Everything got very messy because we were putting money into selling the houses and then getting money back from selling the houses so I’ve only got one number for you):

Percentage of the way towards our goal of financial independence: 46%

I’m going to try to update this blog more regularly for you three people who actually read my ramblings (hi mom!). You’re welcome.

July Wrap-Up

beach-3July is a month for going to the beach. A month for eating Slurpees and swimming. It is not a month that I want to spend in front of my computer counting pennies. Add to that the stress of selling not one but two houses and all of the time, energy, and money that goes into that particular endeavor, and you get the perfect storm of, “I just don’t care about anything anymore! I’m eating out!”

First, we’ll start with the challenges:

While our first house was happily pending a sale (woo hoo), we began July with the arduous task of fixing up our second house to get it on the market. This included a day of fix-up, hiring a painter, hiring carpet cleaners and freaking out when the first day on the market, the house reeked from the smell of the still wet carpets! Despite this setback, we got an offer and are happily pending the sale of the second house. Gotta love the Seattle housing market.

Maybe it was because of the stress of selling two houses, or maybe it was the sun and the call of the beach, but whatever the reason, we found it hard to be in our home at dinnertime and consequentially ate out a lot. What a luxury! A very expensive luxury.

To get back on track, I decided to restart a meal delivery service. Not the most frugal option – especially since the one we chose uses only organic ingredients and caters to our GF/DF lifestyle – but it reminded me how much I love cooking with fresh beautiful ingredients in the kitchen. It was like a jump start to my home cooking skills. After two weeks, I cancelled the delivery – ready to tackle cooking once again.

Now, onto the successes!

While I sat calculating my end of the month expenses, I realized that even though I felt like we went crazy with our spending, we actually didn’t do that bad. If you eliminate the spending on the houses, our savings rate was 64%.


That is an amazing savings rate. Our goal is 72%, but 64% is noting to scoff at. That means that we saved 64% of our income this month!

Along with this amazing savings rate, the market did exceptionally well this month which puts us at 50% of the way towards our goal of financial independence. Keep in mind, the 50% does not take into account the money we will get from selling our houses. I am so so so excited to pay off our current mortgage with the money we make from the sales, and I’m even more excited to see what that does to our goal of financial independence. How should we celebrate? I need ideas people!

Kitchen Remodel on the Cheap


july-4Yep – this is an actual picture of my actual kitchen when we moved into our house. One person could fit comfortably and two people could fit as long as one person was holding his breath.

It was completely enclosed except for that teeny tiny window above the sink. It was dark. And closed in. And generally not a place that I wanted to spend much time – which sucked since we end up spending a lot of time in our kitchen.

So, being the impulsive – “I can do this remodel on the cheap” – person that I am, I decided to start pulling down cabinets and walls. My husband just shook his head. He’s a planner. He wanted a plan, but that’s not how I roll. I just jump right in with both feet, armed only with a general vision and my completely unfounded faith that I can do anything I set my mind to.

july-7As I began the demolition, I was amazed by all the hidden treasures in my kitchen – like this random fan hidden above the cabinets over the fridge. The most frustrating find though, was when I realized that that lip above the cabinets was not just a lip – it was the ACTUAL CEILING! Which meant that I quickly learned how to tear out the ceiling…and clean up all the insulation and random bird’s nest that fell down with it.

The best hidden treasure was the window. Whomever put in the cabinets had basically boarded up that teeny tiny window which meant that when I took the cabinets out, I now had a HUGE window already there! Woo Hoo! It almost made tearing out the ceiling worth it.

The next step was taking out the drywall. I NEVER want to even look at drywall again. I hate that stuff. Its heavy and awkward and despite its simplicity, it makes a mess.

july-8Here is my sexy sexy husband ripping into the ceiling while the drywall crumbled everywhere!

Once I got the new drywall up and mudded, I stopped. My energy for this project ran out completely.

My brother was horrified that our outlets were just dangling there (he probably had a point) and my husband and daughter were annoyed that all of our dishes were in the living room.

Don’t get me wrong. I was desperate to finish this thing, but I could not force myself to do one more thing to it. I was totally spent. So, I hired a handyman and I don’t regret that decision at all. It took him three days to finish my hack job and that included the time he spent politely fixing the parts I had already completed.

I put in the counters and the back splash (don’t be too impressed – the counters are contact paper and the back splash is just peel and stick. Totally ghetto but NOBODY WOULD KNOW…until now. Now I guess everyone knows. The point being: you cannot tell unless you look really closely).

I painted the bottom cabinets and replaced the hardware with some fancy hardware my mom gave me. Bought and put in the shelves. Replaced the big fridge with two little ones (one for food and one for drinks which we keep in a different room).

Ready for the reveal?

july-11It feels like its 10 times bigger! I love the light that comes in through the bigger window and the range hood (which we bought but had our handyman install). I also replaced the lighting with track lighting to light the corners.

july-9july-12july-10Now for the fun part! The cost breakdown. Forgive me – I was really diligent about recording expenses at the beginning and got less and less so as the project progressed.

crowbar: $20

counter tops: $40 – white marble never looked so good…just don’t look too close

drywall: $120 – included the mud, sanding and all the other things needed

truck: $20 – to drive the drywall home

electrical stuff: $12 – new outlet covers and boxes

haul away: $275 – I could have rented a truck and taken the stuff to the dump myself, but I wouldn’t have saved very much and the extra money was totally worth the hassle I saved.

shelves: $50

new plates: $20 – if you are going to do open shelves, you have to have nice dishes

handyman and all the supplies he bought: $1300

backs splash: $88

fridge: $50

hood: $200

paint: $30

hardware: free – thanks mom

light fixture: free – thanks buy nothing group

TOTAL: $2225

Not too bad for a complete kitchen remodel.

Spending Money Like We Just Don’t Care

downloadJuly 1st was a day on our calendar that we had circled in big red sharpie…Or, at least we would have if we still used a physical calendar. On our Google Calendar it looked like a giant list of meetings and to do items. It was a day when all the chaos of our lives converged into one 24 hour period.

I mentioned that we were selling both of our rental houses (the housing market in Seattle is on fire and while we think that it will continue to go up, we are quite happy with where it is now and plan on jumping ship while buyers compete for the privilege of buying from us) and it just so happened that both tenants gave notice at the same time.

In order to reduce vacancy loss, we needed to get the houses fixed up as quickly as possible and ready for the market.

Have you seen a rental house after the tenants move out? Everyone is messy, but there is something about living in a rental property that gives people the freedom to be just a little bit more messy. I really wish I had taken a before picture of our houses. One of them was piled high with stuff everywhere and puddles of dog pee all over the ground. The other was a patch work of miss matched painted walls and childhood graffiti. This is not a dis on our tenants at all! We had amazing tenants who were kind and always paid the rent on time, but people are messy.

So, we had one day to meet the contractors and fix up all the little things to get the houses ready for the market….and of course I was working all day that day.

I have the best job in the world in that most of the time, I get to choose my hours and make my job fit with the rest of my life, but there are times when that just isn’t possible and Friday the 1st was one of those times. I was shooting an 11 hour wedding. I thought about asking the couple to reschedule but figured they would probably say no.

This left Adam and Ilya to take care of all that house stuff while I was taking care of my work stuff.

We were dishing out money right and left: new floors, new paint, wall repair, tile repair, cleaning and staging. I felt like that person in movies with a giant wad of cash who haphazardly peals $100 bills from the top and tosses them around. Except I don’t carry cash. And it actually looked more like handing over a credit card every five minutes, but you get the idea.

A ton of time and energy went into the preparation of July 1st. I had to call flooring people, call painters, call contractors, call the stager, and coordinate with them and the renters to set aside times for them to come give me a quote. Then I had to drive all the way up to the properties. Not a big deal, you might think, but then you obviously don’t live in Seattle. It was at least an hour drive each way and that was if I was lucky! Then, most of the contractors never even got back to me or if they did, they charged way too much so I had to do it all again. It took a solid month of coordinating people to get everyone lined up and ready to go.

We even ate out several times this month because we were both working so much. All of this meant that I was dreading actually looking at our finances.

Could we have done things even cheaper than we did? Absolutely. Would it have been worth the utter exhaustion and misery it would have put us through. Nope. Being frugal is a balance. Your health and well being are valuable. I hired a contractor to repair a wall and tile entry way for $250. It took him all day and he used all sorts of fancy equipment that I don’t have. When he was finished it looked like new (something that would NOT have been the case had I attempted this project myself). Worth. Every. Cent. Same goes for the new floors and the painting of our incredibly high ceilings and the staging.

I sat down to look at our finances for June with a heavy heart and was floored when I got the results. For all the thousands and thousands of dollars we spent on rental properties for the month we only had to dip into our savings to cover $1500. Our regular monthly income covered the rest of it. I can’t even image what this would have done to us if we lived paycheck to paycheck. We would have gone into huge amounts of debt and spent years paying it off, but because of how we live, we were able to cover the entire cost of fixing up both houses using just our monthly income (and $1500 which we will pay ourselves back next month).

If there was any doubt in my mind that living simply and focusing on our saving rate was the way for us, they have been obliterated. Once we sell these two rental properties, we will hopefully be able to pay off our mortgage and be debt free! One step closer to financial independence!

How Do You Define Success?

successRecently, I discovered that someone whom I thought of as a close friend has secretly been judging me for quite some time. Now, we all have opinions about our friends from time to time that we keep to ourselves such as: “I’m not lovin the new haircut,” and “I don’t think that ‘blackened’ chicken means burnt to a crisp.” Our friends are not us and we will therefore probably not agree with every decision they ever make. This is normal.

This “friend” of mine, however, told my husband that he should divorce me because I am a “user.” After the shock, sadness and feelings of utter betrayal calmed down, I started to think about what he was talking about. He clearly viewed our relationship as inequitable. Having maybe spent a total of 10 hours with him over the past year, I quickly realized that his opinion had nothing to do with fact or even observation but was purely based on what he knew about us.

My husband works a typical 9-5 job. In a cubical. In computers. Downtown. He makes a decent amount of money and is the primary breadwinner for our family.

I run a part time photography business from my home which brings in a reasonable part time income. This allows me the time to take care of the things around the house. More importantly, I am the one who volunteers at my daughter’s school, attends the meetings, picks her up when she is sick and after school, takes her on outings after school and plans learning opportunities for her.

I tried to put myself in this “friend’s” shoes. What does he see? He sees my husband going to work every day and me staying home. To him, success is having a 9-5 job. In a cubical. Downtown. While failure is working from home spending time with your family.

That is so messed up and backwards.

But the really scary thing is: he is not alone. We are trained to believe as a society that success is working 40+ hours a week while getting paid well. This is what we all work towards achieving through years of school. It is typically the first thing asked at a party (“what do you do?”) and your response can instantly change someone’s opinion of you (“I am a doctor” vs “I am a mom”). The respect you receive correlates with the amount of money your said profession makes.

When I had Tiny Eivy and became a mom, I chose to stop my career in teaching. It didn’t make financial sense. In other words – the cost of raising a family, caring for a home and all the messy details that go along with that surpassed my teaching salary almost ten fold. Seriously. I – in my infinite love of spreadsheets – actually took the time to calculate it all out. Part of that included learning to do things myself which I have talked about in previous posts, and the hidden benefits of learning new skills while saving money – but part of it was just everyday stuff like watching our kid and transporting her to activities.

But – blah blah blah – I am not the first person to talk about the financial sense of having a parent work from home part time or simply stay at home. There are so many studies out there about the actual cost of running a family. None of it matters though because we, as a society, do not value work that is not paid directly. My friend’s silent judgement of me is proof enough of this. I’m sure that once we are retired these same people will no longer consider even my husband successful.

Even though we will never have to work for anyone else.

Even though we will travel the world.

Even though we will get to spend all the time we want together as a family.

Even though we will have all the time in the world to pursue our personal passions and follow our personal inspirations.

SHHHHH – don’t tell anyone but I’ve got a plan to combat this consumerist backwards view of success. From henceforth when asked, I will no longer tell people that I am a part time photographer and mom, instead I will cycle through the following titles as I see fit:

  • Chief Financial Officer for Eivy Household and Shadowpuppet LLC
  • Accountant and tax advisor
  • General Contractor specializing in kitchen remodels
  • Teacher
  • Landscape Architect
  • Personal Chef specializing in dietary restrictions
  • Personal shopper
  • International Photographer
  • UX Designer
  • Therapist
  • Project Manager

This is fun. I could go on, but the point is this: the more titles I accumulate the less I have to pay other people to do these things. The more I am independent – financially, personally, environmentally… Independent is the key word there. I don’t relay on anybody or anything to live a life full of passion and joy and that is my definition of success. What’s yours?

Getting Inspired

muscleWhen I first heard about this whole minimalist lifestyle, I laughed it off as something that might work just fine for others thank you very much but was not for me. Who wants to spend their life counting their pennies and stressing over every purchase?

Then again, who wants to live their life working a 9-5 job in an office cubical?

Being a firm believer that it never hurts to gather more information (after all – you don’t have to actually DO anything with that information if you don’t want to), I sat down and started to make some spreadsheets with projections.

“What if we stopped eating out?”

“What if we stopped buying new things?”

“What if we tried walking everywhere rather than driving?”

With each question, I watched our DATE OF FINANCIAL INDEPENDENCE get closer and closer. Then the really hard questions started:

“Would it hurt to give it a try?”

“Would our lives suck if we cut down on expenses?”

“Would this lifestyle put a strain on our lives? On our marriage? On our family?”

I’m not gonna lie. At first it was HARD. I wanted to eat out constantly. I kept thinking about things that I wanted to buy, and I really missed my Starbucks coffee!

I didn’t think this whole minimalist thing was for us. It just wasn’t going to work, but I promised myself I’d give it a month. That was January. January was “buy nothing” month and let me tell you, I was counting down the hours until February 1st.

But then the craziest thing happened. February rolled around and I realized that I was so happy that I hadn’t bought that stuff that I didn’t actually need or really want. I was thrilled that I had all the money that I would have spent eating out safely invested making me more money. The biggest realization though, was that instead of driving my family apart, we ended up spending more quality time together – doing fun things as a family.

I hate the word “frugal” since it brings up images of being cheap and tight, but for lack of a better word I realized that being frugal was like building a muscle. At first, it feels like your arm is going to fall off and you can’t wait until you can get out of the gym and eat some ice cream, but slowly it gets easier and easier. Then, one day you realize that it is too easy so you start to give yourself more challenges and you actually enjoy those challenges.

Just like a muscle though, if you neglect the frugal lifestyle, your frugal muscle starts to atrophy and you start to forget all the reasons why you wanted to build that muscle in the first place.

Six months into this frugal lifestyle and I realized that I had stopped menu planning which had started to lead to, “lets just get take out tonight.” Driving to the supermarket seamed so much easier than walking. Plus it was raining (yep – not a great excuse when you live in Seattle). In other words, my frugal muscle was started to decay. Our accounts hadn’t really taken the hit yet but it was only a matter of time.

This is the point where you groan and realize that you had better get your ass back to the gym. My gym is other people who are living this way. People who are retired and traveling the world. Enjoying the simple pleasures of spending time together on a long after dinner walk. I think about the poor people who get trapped in the debt trap and I feel so grateful that my life never took that turn.

Here is a great article about living minimally. I disagree that it is a millennial thing, but everything else he talks about it right on. There are so many other people who inspire me and I know once we pay off our home I’ll feel so much better.

Six months ago, if you had told me that I was going to pay off my home by September, I would have laughed in your face, but with the housing market the way it is, things are looking good. So, there is a silver lining.